I Am 37 Years Old , I am single, No Child, I Need A Husband. 

I Am 37 Years Old , I am single, No Child, I Need A Husband. 

I have lived in the UK since I was 12. Now I am 37. I have a reputable job but I have no child, no husband, I am lonely. I traveled to Nigeria just to see if I can see new things, meet new people and probably meet my own man.
I met this 39 year old man who lives and works in Nigeria. We got talking and one thing led to another, we started dating. I loved him so much and he loved me too (at least, so I thought). I stayed four months in Nigeria to be able to know him better and also for him to know me.
Long story short, I traveled back to the UK, started processing his papers. I brought him to the UK, he stayed with me, for six months he did not work, because there was no need for him to work until his papers are complete. I fed him, clothed him, he paid no rent. I live in my own house.

Eight months after, I realised that there is this lady down the street he is talking to all the time. They chat and greet, and the lady greets me also knowing he is my man.
One day, I was hit with the shock of the news that the lady was pregnant for my man. The lady without any remorse, approached me and asked me to calculate all I spent to bring my man here, that she was going to refund me double.
I refused to collect any money. I left them to karma, but I am truly pained and devastated as I write this because I am still single with no husband, no child and I am miserably lonely.

What do you advise me to do? I will be in the comment reading.